Aside from the FAQ, this is my first real blog post, so I decided to make it a fun one. Come up with a creative caption for this picture and post it in the comments.
Friday, June 27, 2014
Caption This Picture! 6/27/14 (Betty and Veronica)
Aside from the FAQ, this is my first real blog post, so I decided to make it a fun one. Come up with a creative caption for this picture and post it in the comments.
Thursday, June 26, 2014
FAQs
I want to publish a spanking story on your blog. What are the requirements?
Here are a few non-negotiable rules:
Can we see a picture of you?
Unfortunately not. It's important to be cautious about Internet privacy, especially when you're a young professional with Google-savvy employers.
Well then how do I know what you look like?
21 years old (as of the time of this writing) Pale complexion, brown eyes, long straight dark brown hair. I usually dress casually in jeans and Converse shoes. Yeah, I know this description isn't much fuel for masturbation, but I suck at describing myself.
Are you just a spankee or do you like to be the one giving spankings sometimes?
I'm just a spankee. I have given spankings before upon request, and I have had fun doing it, but being on the giving end isn't an experience that I really crave. What turns me on is being on the receiving end.
What is your opinion on spanking children as punishment?
I strongly disapprove. No, I don't think parents who spank their kids are cruel monsters but I do think they are failing to use reason and are instead choosing to stick with a barbaric "traditional" form of punishment because it's all the way they were brought up. Inflicting physical pain is one thing, but spanking is too sexualized to be used as a punishment for children. I have bought several spanking implements from a sex shop. That alone should tell you all you need to know about how inappropriate it is for children. Gross!
A lot of you may say "My parents believed in spanking and I turned out fine". Well my parents did NOT believe in spanking and I turned out fine too. I got A's in school, don't drink, never even touched a cigarette or drugs, etc.
Is spanking the only sort of BDSM activity you are into?
Yes. I have experimented with other things, but I haven't really found another fetish that interests me like spanking does.
How closely does your spanking hobby relate to your sex life?
It really depends on who is spanking me. I have been spanked by people who I have never had sex with. I used to have a somewhat regular spanker who was an older gay man. Despite the fact that I spent a LOT of time naked while at his place, there was never any sort of sexual contact between us. I have also had sex without spanking ever being involved. And then there are the really awesome times where there is mutual attraction between the spanker and I, which leads to both sex and spanking. Having a sore butt does wonders for having amazing orgasms.
Speaking of sex, what is your sexual orientation.
I'm bisexual, cisgendered, and femme. I normally just call myself "bisexual", but in today's blogosphere, it's almost an unwritten rule that you have to be very specific when talking about sexual orientation and gender identity.
Why do you call yourself a "slut"? Do you not respect yourself?
I totally respect myself. I am not ashamed to identify as a "slut" because I don't think of it as being degrading at all to me. Sex is a beautiful and joyful experience. I do it for my own pleasure and for the pleasure of my partners. I don't need to justify my desires to anyone. I approach sex from a rational perspective and practice common sense safety.
Other than having sex and being spanked, what else do you like to do?
I like to hike, jog, swim, do yoga, play video games, and read sci-fi/fantasy novels. I like Robert Jordan, Terry Goodkind, Brandon Sanderson, Brent Weeks, and Orson Scott Card books.
What are your political and religious views?
I am a libertarian and an atheist.
Can I ask you a question?
Sure, but I would prefer for you to ask your question as a public comment rather than sending me a private message. This saves me from having to answer the same questions over and over again. It may also generate discussion with others.
Where are you located? Can you meet me for spanking/sex?
No. Just don't even bother sending me messages like this. I won't spare your ego. Despite how that last sentence sounds, I'm actually a very friendly person. I just understand the importance of setting boundaries.
Here are a few non-negotiable rules:
- If you didn't write the story yourself, be sure to have permission from the person who did. The same rule applies for accompanying images.
- NO CHILDREN! Even if it's fictional, keep characters limited to ages 18 and over. If you want to publish a story here about parental or school spankings, then consider using age 18 high school seniors as characters.
- Make it good. Not everyone is a talented writer. Just because your ultimate spanking fantasy is totally hot doesn't mean that you are adequately getting that across in written word. I reserve the right to reject any stories without providing a reason.
Can we see a picture of you?
Unfortunately not. It's important to be cautious about Internet privacy, especially when you're a young professional with Google-savvy employers.
Well then how do I know what you look like?
21 years old (as of the time of this writing) Pale complexion, brown eyes, long straight dark brown hair. I usually dress casually in jeans and Converse shoes. Yeah, I know this description isn't much fuel for masturbation, but I suck at describing myself.
Are you just a spankee or do you like to be the one giving spankings sometimes?
I'm just a spankee. I have given spankings before upon request, and I have had fun doing it, but being on the giving end isn't an experience that I really crave. What turns me on is being on the receiving end.
What is your opinion on spanking children as punishment?
I strongly disapprove. No, I don't think parents who spank their kids are cruel monsters but I do think they are failing to use reason and are instead choosing to stick with a barbaric "traditional" form of punishment because it's all the way they were brought up. Inflicting physical pain is one thing, but spanking is too sexualized to be used as a punishment for children. I have bought several spanking implements from a sex shop. That alone should tell you all you need to know about how inappropriate it is for children. Gross!
A lot of you may say "My parents believed in spanking and I turned out fine". Well my parents did NOT believe in spanking and I turned out fine too. I got A's in school, don't drink, never even touched a cigarette or drugs, etc.
Is spanking the only sort of BDSM activity you are into?
Yes. I have experimented with other things, but I haven't really found another fetish that interests me like spanking does.
How closely does your spanking hobby relate to your sex life?
It really depends on who is spanking me. I have been spanked by people who I have never had sex with. I used to have a somewhat regular spanker who was an older gay man. Despite the fact that I spent a LOT of time naked while at his place, there was never any sort of sexual contact between us. I have also had sex without spanking ever being involved. And then there are the really awesome times where there is mutual attraction between the spanker and I, which leads to both sex and spanking. Having a sore butt does wonders for having amazing orgasms.
Speaking of sex, what is your sexual orientation.
I'm bisexual, cisgendered, and femme. I normally just call myself "bisexual", but in today's blogosphere, it's almost an unwritten rule that you have to be very specific when talking about sexual orientation and gender identity.
Why do you call yourself a "slut"? Do you not respect yourself?
I totally respect myself. I am not ashamed to identify as a "slut" because I don't think of it as being degrading at all to me. Sex is a beautiful and joyful experience. I do it for my own pleasure and for the pleasure of my partners. I don't need to justify my desires to anyone. I approach sex from a rational perspective and practice common sense safety.
Other than having sex and being spanked, what else do you like to do?
I like to hike, jog, swim, do yoga, play video games, and read sci-fi/fantasy novels. I like Robert Jordan, Terry Goodkind, Brandon Sanderson, Brent Weeks, and Orson Scott Card books.
What are your political and religious views?
I am a libertarian and an atheist.
Can I ask you a question?
Sure, but I would prefer for you to ask your question as a public comment rather than sending me a private message. This saves me from having to answer the same questions over and over again. It may also generate discussion with others.
Where are you located? Can you meet me for spanking/sex?
No. Just don't even bother sending me messages like this. I won't spare your ego. Despite how that last sentence sounds, I'm actually a very friendly person. I just understand the importance of setting boundaries.
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